Product Details
Raising Children Is Not a War
Publishing company: Thai Ha
Publisher: Social Labor
Action fake Hachun Lyonnet - Bubu Huong - Mother Bee Bong
Cover type: Paperback
Number of pages: 316
Publishing date: 01-2018
You have become a mother, holding your little life in your arms. You must be very worried and concerned with thousands of questions: how to help your baby get used to the family, keep up with the new life outside, how to understand and properly meet the needs of a newborn baby who only knows how to use crying as the only tool to communicate. Questions keep popping up, you frantically seek help and answers from many different sources, and then easily fall into a spiral of mistakes and an exhausting battle in your career of raising a child.
In the first days you will try to breastfeed your baby continuously, to stimulate milk production, to let your baby know that this is the mother. Sometimes you will wake your baby up to breastfeed when you see him sleeping soundly because you're afraid he won't be hungry for too long without feeding. You constantly wonder: is your baby hungry? Is it okay if I do that? Can you sleep? Are you hot? Are you cold? And how to help your child gain weight as quickly as possible. Is your child's weight gain slow compared to his brother, sister, or neighbor's child?
When he was 4 months old, you suddenly noticed that your child breastfed less, he was irritable, he slept restlessly, and he woke up many times at night. You think your baby is hungry, so you panic and breastfeed every hour. The baby is fussy and crying, only the mother's breast or a bottle can put the baby to sleep. And only when sleeping will the baby eat. Each of my sleeps only lasts 30 minutes and then I wake up agitated like I've never rested. At night, your child wakes up constantly and wants to be breastfed. You think your child needs to be fed less during the day, so you don't sleep all night because you need to "nourish" your child. I'm tired and I feel like my baby is getting more and more "difficult" every day. When I started eating solid food at 6 months, my baby kept fussing and couldn't eat much. You decide to let your baby lie on his back to fertilize and wait for natural gravity to help the food "fall" into his belly. The same goes for milk - the only way to drink milk is to lie on your back with a spoon, or worse, drink it from a syringe. My baby still cries at night and wakes up constantly. You feel like the sleepless nights will probably last forever.
9 months, your child's weight won't increase, he refuses and is afraid of food. Milk now has to be spoon-fed. Even so, if one spoon goes into the child's stomach, one spoon falls to the ground. Waste. You feel disappointed and helpless with your child. You have read more than a hundred pages of weaning documents, all kinds of Western Chinese Japanese Japanese, but it seems that your child is not suitable for any method.
You have read more than a hundred pages of weaning documents, all kinds of Western Chinese Japanese Japanese, but it seems your child is not suitable for any method. Come on.
Ten months after your child was born, you thought it would be easier as the child grew older, but no, everything became more difficult. At this time, every meal you have to take your child out for a walk, to the playground, to have toys if your child sits on a chair, and going to a restaurant is a nightmare. Your child can ask for many unimaginable things, and you will respond unconditionally, as long as he eats.... In the end, I didn't want to eat either. Then the child tantrums, cries, threatens to vomit food, and so you find ways to fulfill your demands as long as the child doesn't tantrum or vomit lest he lose weight...
You thought your child would be able to give you a full night's sleep after turning 1 year old, but no, he still wakes up several times, tossing and turning every night. not sleeping well. You go to see every nutritionist, take all kinds of digestive enzymes and feel even more helpless because you can't change nature, you can't make your child fat, or your child sleep well... Moreover, you always feel like you have a reluctant tail. You just ran out for 5 minutes when you heard sobbing in the room. When you go into the bathroom to do secret work, there will be reluctant spectators who wrinkle their noses and want to climb onto your lap. A little longer, you feel like you have more kings and queens in your house, you have to have whatever you like right away, if you don't like it you roll on the ground and struggle, your cries drown out the sound of the bomb, even threatening to hit your head against the wall. The more crowded you are, the more you hear musicals at an overloaded volume.
You are often in bed. Fear of falling or crying; Sometimes you feel embarrassed when you see passersby looking back and whispering, so you run out to pick them up, hug them, and meet all the needs of the little gods. Or sometimes when your child falls, you immediately take action to "take care of it", sometimes parents and grandparents are given a few free slaps, or a few tooth marks on the hand or shoulder. You think that when you grow up, your child will understand what you say, but life is not like a dream. One fine day, your little angel only knows how to say the word "no" to everything you ask or demand from him: after bathing, he absolutely refuses to get dressed, refuses to sit still to eat, refuses to put away his toys. If you speak lightly, don't switch to speaking harshly, then coerce, then threaten, then the house turns into a battle where there are screams from the mother and the sobs of the child...